200202455 이은주(독일어과)Usually, it is said that our ideas about ideal mate change everyday. Perhaps it's not true for everybody, but I sympathize with that phrase. Because I feel that my ideal type changes every year, too. When I was younger, I didn't have chances for making a boy friends, even some time ago. In those days, my ideal type used to be a perfect man with a tall stature, handsome face and broad shoulders. These days, my ideal type is as follows.I think the least important thing is physical attractiveness. If someone's physical attractiveness is great, It's good, of course. But, my ideal type's outside aspects is not critical for me; he doesn't have to be handsome. I'm satisfied with healthy and ordinary personal appearance. Because I consider people's effort to be good is really important, Physical attractive is own. But, our society is still prejudiced to people's outside appearance.Look at the companies in Korea! Women who is not tall, pretty are rejected from the interviews of many companies. It makes my heart hurt. I regard inner values higher than external values in terms of an ideal type. For inside aspects,First, I want my future life-mate to be an open-minded person. I am attracted by a man who has no prejudice and is unbiased, because I don't like a man who is conservative and patriarchal.Second, I want a man who can take care of everything related with me in some conditions. He and I have lived for many days in different evironments. So, if we're tamed to each other, then we shall need each other.Third, I like a man who says what he feels and wants. Judging from my experience, they are in better relationship when people are more open and honest to each other. Some people feel uncomfortable with guys honestly. Perhaps, some people think that they are so rude, but I think they are great.Forth, I want a man who can entirely trust me. I think that the happiness of married life is based on the trust for each other's partner. Trust begets trust, distrust begets distrust. To believe in each other... It's most important.Till I recieve this assignment, I've never thought about my ideal type. Just I have had vague expectation that someday a perfect man will appear in front of me. But, I feel that it's the time to imagine what my ideal partner should be. Anyway, this assignment must be a good chance for me to think of my ideal type. I'm not sure whether my ideal type will change, but I know that there's no super man. But, I'm not disappointed. What I want to empahsize is that, I will not fit a man to my ideal type. So, I will open my mind and meet various men. If I meet a man, he would be only a man like any other man.